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For
your fathers carried you on their shoulders carefully as a burden on
them, and they raised you.
Listen
to the advice of Gorkut Ata: “Gain your reputation while your father
is alive, and get ahead while you have your horse.”
Your
father is a base for you in society. People measure your value first by
looking at your father. Don’t let your father be ashamed among others
because of you.
You
are the heir of your father. It is not merely wealth that you inherit.
Your father’s reputation or dishonour is left to you, too. Your
father’s heritage is divided equally among his children, but his
authority transfers to you and your brothers undivided.
May
you never forget who your father is. Let others say of you, “Better
than his father,” and be proud if they say so. Be ashamed if they say
of you, “He is not up to his father.”
Don’t
you ever forget that you were created out of one drop.
If
it weren’t for your father, you wouldn’t exist. You would not have
been born if not for him. It is your father’s existence that made your
existence in the world of beings possible. Your father is your previous
self.
Disregarding
your father means disregarding yourself. Being disrespectful to your
father is being disrespectful to yourself. The more favours you do your
father, the more you do the same for yourself.
I
spend much time thinking about the relations between fathers and their
sons. A Türkmen saying goes: “If your father is a dog, then feed
yourself at a trough.”
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