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Don’t
warn them offensively if they boast or speak highly of themselves.
If
they cause problems because they are old and unable, be patient.
Share
their problems.
Try
not to cause or give them harm.
Don’t
be suspicious of them.
Wish
them a long life when they are alive.
Provide
them with clothing better than yours.
Provide
them with food better than yours.
Serve
them in a serious and sincere way.
Help
them reach their desires and make them happy.
Provide
them with their needs.
Do
not be mean toward them.
Adopt
their friends as yours.
Remember
them after they die, do favours and charities on their behalf, recite
from the Qur’an and have its verses recited for their benefit. For the
Türkmen holds that it is the prayers of the children that reach the
souls of the deceased parents first. After their demise, one means of
doing good on their behalf in this world is their children’s righteous
deeds.
My
dear child!
Continue
serving your parents even after they pass away. The services you render
to the homeland will be of use after death, as well. Don’t forget
about your homeland. The
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