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Friendship
between the same genders, mentality or interests are usual.
The
relations between two people take place in the private world where third
parties are not allowed to intervene.
The
friendship between the brave man and his horse are dealt with in many
beautiful works. These works define friendship as sharing the same
destiny and the relations between the two in moments of difficulty. This
is the sincerest form of friendship.
There
is a friendship between man and his Creator. Allah the Almighty’s
friends are called saints or holy people. These are people that devote
all their lives, and bodily and spiritual assets to Allah. Some of them
even avoided marriage so that their hearts were not divided.
“You
told all your secrets to that friend of yours. What if he intends to
speak ill of you and discloses them to the public?” one man asked
another. That man replied:
“If
that friend of mine speaks ill of me and discloses my secrets to the
public, then life would be meaningless for me. It wouldn’t be worth
living then. For that friend of mine is the meaning of life for me.”
The
friend is what gives meaning to life. When one talks sincerely to
one’s close friend, one feels relaxed. Man wishes to talk about
certain things that cannot remain inside him. Such things man can share
with his friend. Then he will become relaxed.
Friendship
means devotion of one’s heart to another person. This means friendship
is an ability that resides in the heart. The heart’s main ability is
to love.
Friendship
is affection, compassion and mercy.
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